Showing posts with label external authority. Show all posts
Showing posts with label external authority. Show all posts

Monday, February 4, 2013

learning their external authority

I think there are two ways to motivate.

It is "internalized external authority."

It creates an authority in your head. Here's what to do. Find out if you are good enough. And, you know, if you're wrong.

Motivation for the use of internalized external authority which embody the voice for a moment. Calculated statements juicy good about your life and yourself, as in: "You have not worked hard enough to better a better education that you get what you get a better deal!"

Then go back to your main car and start working. If it is loose, use your whip outside authority internalized itself in action.

This method actually works. Most people use it in part or another. The problem is that your peace of mind steals necessary to give a state of true inspiration and creativity. It is probably best used in a commercial environment or similar environments are well trained, highly concentrated work is appreciated.

I was born with a natural resistance to this kind of motivation. Personally, I think that what is lost in this way is greater than what you deserve?. In fact, once vowed that I would rather live on the street, this type of course.

Uncoiling car

It is a further possibility. I think a version of the self-directed approach to training / teaching as a lack of education known.

In uncoiling, parents choose not to exercise authority over their children. His belief is that if the children are learning their own decisions ultimately responsible for themselves. This philosophy is justified by the results, available to students grow healthy, happy and good cooperation.

Uncool for you, take this "inner man" and get the freedom to work outside their own borders.

It is not easy to start. You really go through the same process as the children when their parents do suddenly changing conventional uncoiling parenting style.

In these situations, children tend "act" against their former boundaries, until finally solved their own limitations.

For example, if they are still forced to reduce their consumption of television watching television all day.

If they were forced to the amount they eat cake to reduce border, they will eat all the cake you can find.

If they were forced to be nice to your sister be cruel to her sister.

A disaster? But ... wait ...

After a few weeks of the television all day, the child learns that the TV is not very interested in to find a new interest for your time to complete. Maybe start the woodworking to help learning, their lives.

After eating cake and also get sick, they are eating their own limits on the height of the cake. Maybe I'll start eating more vegetables, just to feel healthier.

Pain after her sister to see the consequences of their actions and remorse. They realize that lead to their own internal moral compass away from these things.

Learn to self-regulate

Respond if someone punishment and reward is, you deny their ability to regulate itself. But this power is there, and it is wiser and more sensitive than an external body could be.

We have learned to rely on external authority. Therefore, we have to internalize the voice of external authority. If there is nobody to tell us what to do.

In the silence that voice that must eventually learn to self-regulate. First, you need to do the opposite of what their internalized external authority tells you, and then from his own experience, know where their limits. To learn more, more intellectual sounding is the case, the experience will accompany inside frozen. It's learning how to do that, you do not think you have to experience.

For most people, this process is dominated by laziness. The biggest part of our lives we have the voice of authority external force us internalized from school and work. So, if we do not vote, our first reaction is to do nothing.

It will take some time to go through this phase. How much longer? I cannot say ... It took about three years, but I was running on instinct and turbid only aware of the reasons why I did what I did. I think if you inaction, fully aware and constantly reminded, are not punished for it, and remember that you have the right to have set their own limits of experience, much less time.


It is an expression for the sound much better than the "non-action" lie.

Do what you can to capture this moment. Enjoy a minimalist. Go WWOOFing. Go to India or Thailand. Sell ​​your car. The sale of your home. Get a rich woman. Sleep on the streets, if you think it will help. Do what it takes.

Rejecting both authoritative voice internally and externally: the important thing is this. Aside from that, what you want, what you win.

Finally, you will be rewarded with two things.

The first is the idea that money is something to do that you "have" no.

The second will come a little later.

It is a grace, a source of inspiration. You find something to do. But no matter what happens.

It is a motivation that burns in you, and if you do that, you realize that the oil on the fire is endless. This is something I want to do, what to do, and yet a source of financial support, if you want or need it.

The inclusion of one or more of these tips into your daily routine, you will be more likely to keep a state of mind, or even the whole day, that will help you live a more peaceful life. And to minimize or eliminate negative moods, your physical body will have access to the energy they need to stay healthy for life

I have this new phase of life, and I can tell you, life is never so exciting.