Everything that happens to us happens on purpose

Everything that happens to us happens on purpose.

And sometimes one thing leads to another.

Instead of the cage of fears and crying over past mistakes, the treatment of shame and indifference, they are as their teacher and your tools in both self improvement and success.

Once I saw an interview with Jennifer Lopez in which he said something so profound that I remember to this day. She said that we are here on this earth, for two reasons. Loving and learning. If doens't want to love .... Then there must be a lesson to learn it.

Thus, when self-improvement become synonymous with success? Where do we start? Follow these tips:

• Stop thinking and feeling as if you were a failure because you are not. How can others accept you if you can not accept?

• If the bits and models on television, think more on self-improvement, not self-pity. Self-acceptance is not only good for thin legs, large or to have ABS. Concentrate on inner beauty.

• When people develop so down and low self-esteem, help them move up. Do not go to the table with them. They will drag down even more and both end up feeling inferior.

• The world is a large room for lessons, not mistakes. Do not feel stupid and doomed forever just because they have not a scientific test. There's always a next time, the room for self-improvement.

• Take things one at a time. You do not expect black sheep, it is good-two-shoes down in just a few moments. Better one day in a process that takes time.

• Self-improvement results to inner stability, personality development and success. It has self-confidence, self esteem and self-esteem.

• Set meaningful and achievable goals. Self-improvement does not turn to the exact replica of Cameron Diaz or Ralph Fiennes be. It is to be hoped and will take you to the improvement and better.

• Little things mean BIG to other people. Sometimes we can not recognize, say that small things we do like a pat on the shoulder and say "Hello" or "hello" to someone greet "good day", or Mr. Smith something like "hey, I like your tie are "simple things that mean so much for others. If we are grateful for the beautiful things around us and with others we are also nice to them.

• If you are willing to accept change and go through the process of self-improvement are, it does not mean all. The world is a place where people of different values ​​and attitudes are found. Sometimes even when you think you and your best friend always like to do the same thing together at the same time, most likely decline an invitation for self improvement.

We must always remember that there is no such thing as "overnight success." There is always a wonderful feeling to hold on to things we know already that this is just one of the things you've always wanted. A very nice quote says: "When the student is ready the teacher appears." We are all here to learn our lessons. Our parents, teachers, friends, colleagues, neighbors ..., office colleagues, and they are our masters. When we opened our doors for self improvement, we increase our chances of resolving the path to success.

I urge you to have a check for love / learning through the coming days. If you think negatively about you or your situation. Then identify the teaching ... write it ..... and says he has learned, so you can move.